How to Trust Your Intuition and Eliminate Fear & Self-Doubt
In my work with clients, one of the most common challenges they experience is that they don't trust themselves.
In my work with clients, one of the most common challenges they experience is that they don't trust themselves. I decided to address this today by giving you 4 Keys to be aware of that will help you remember the truth of who you are and why you are here, and as a result, trust yourself 100%.

Trust and confidence are the keys to your success. It doesn't matter what your goals are, or how much experience you have, or how much money & resources you have at your disposal. Your level of success is equivalent to the level of trust & confidence you have in yourself. So if you have any fear or doubt keeping you stuck; it's critical that you address this.

Key #1: As a soul you move by desire

Your inner feelings and desires are the key to discovering your life purpose and the path that is best for you to take at this time. A soul moves by desire. In order to feel fulfilled and happy in life, you must know what your heart truly desires, and take steps to move toward it. If you don't know what you want, there's probably fear in the way. You actually do know, but you have been taught to limit yourself.

I worked with a client this morning who initially told me she didn't know what to do. She was stuck and scattered. After a short conversation with her, she told me she loved being in the gym and wanted to do work in the fitness industry. She said "Some people might think that's weird, but that's where I love to be." What we discovered together, is that deep down she knew what her direction was the whole time. She just needed to be more discerning, and remove the limiting thoughts and fears that were causing her to be stuck and unsure.

Of course her life purpose is to work in a gym. All she needed was confirmation of that and now she can move toward her desire. I know she will be successful at it, because she is 100% in alignment with her life purpose and following her desires.

Key #2: Watch out for limiting thoughts

Fear comes from your subconscious. Fear disguises itself cleverly in the form of excuses and limiting thoughts. You may not consciously realize that you are fearful. When you have thoughts such as "I don't know if this is the right thing for me," "That's too difficult," "I can't afford it," "What will they think of me?" and so on; those thoughts are motivated by fear. If you dig deep enough, you will find the fear.

On the surface it seems that these are real concerns. The excuses might seem real. For example, if you want to start a business, fear might tell you that you can't afford it. When you look at your bank statements and see a finite amount of funds, your excuse may seem very real. But no limiting thought is really truth. If you decided that starting a business was absolutely in alignment with your life purpose, and you were going to do it no matter what; you would find the funds and resources you need.

There are so many possibilities and solutions once you look for them.

So remember this.
No matter how real it seems, any limitation you put on yourself is not real. There is ALWAYS a solution to reaching your heart's desire. If you have a desire for it, the way to achieve it ALREADY exists. All you have to do is organize yourself to claim it.

Key #3: Take consistent small action steps, without fear of doing the wrong thing

Energy that is in motion, stays in motion. You are energy. If you keep taking action, you are creating a flow of forward momentum in your life. Have you heard people talk of "Being in the Flow"? It's that feeling of being in the right place at the right time and attracting exactly what you need when you need it.

You can create that flow in your life by taking action. Just keep taking the next step that presents itself to you that is in alignment with your life purpose. You don't need to worry what you'll do 6 months from now, just take action in the present. Many people stop taking action, and feel stuck, afraid that they are going to make a mistake.

Well, all you have to do is check in with your feelings and desires as in Key #1. Does this feel right to me? Do I want this? If yes, then do it! Deep down you already know what you want. Stop second-guessing yourself. Just take the obvious action and don't worry if it's perfect. You'll learn from the experience and your mistakes, and through experience learn what to do better next time. You will be so much further along by taking small imperfect actions, instead of waiting around for the perfect thing.

By taking action you are creating forward momentum and you will start attracting what you need effortlessly. It will just appear in your life! Imagine you are riding a raft along the current of a river. Once you are riding that current, it doesn't take much effort to move forward. You just ride with the momentum that is already there. As you ride the current, you might discover a beautiful waterfall that you didn't know was there, or catch a fish. You just come across those things as you ride the flow of the river.

It's the same with your energy. Start moving forward and you will attract what you need. It will appear in your life as your ride, your own flow of energy.

The key is to just start doing SOMETHING!

Key #4 Make a commitment to yourself

When you are 100% committed to being loyal to yourself and fulfilling your life purpose, everything around you will shift. I accepted a limiting belief for many years that I couldn't afford to renovate my house. As soon as I made the commitment to doing it, no matter what, I have attracted the resources I need to do it.

There is a difference between deciding to do something, and really making a commitment to it. There's no going back on a commitment. When you commit, you create a solid direction that is unwavering. The universe will respond in kind and give you exactly what you need. It's that simple. When you are indecisive, your energy is wishy-washy and your results will be less than great. But when you are committed and have clear direction, you create a laser beam of focused energy that is so powerful you can have anything you need and desire.

Practice getting to that level of commitment with your goals and dreams.

About the Author:
Melissa Kitto - Melissa Kitto- Balanced Living Institute
Melissa Kitto, the Angel Guidance Coach, will show you how to tune in and communicate directly with your angels and experience the JOY of living your unique life purpose. Visit to receive your FREE Special Report, the 3 Secrets to Communicating with your Angels.

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